Love is taking your time and not hurrying to find someone to love you. You must first love yourself. There are many forms of love and they way you feel for a family member is different then when you meet that someone, but it all has to be UNCONDITIONALLY. It is feeling special, being a better person with that person rather than without that person. It is being truthful with yourself and what you want out of life. it is about sacrifices being made. Putting someones needs before your own needs. Going the extra mile for someone, caring, spending time together. You don't have to be joined at the hip to know that you are loved-you just know. That person is so hard to be upset at and when you are upset, You can argue at still glance at them and think WOW or you both laugh or smirk and it's over no hard feelings. It is just being in the same room together that makes you melt. It is about knowing the differences and accepting them. In your eye's that person is great to you. It is the best gift to receive from another human being. Take your time. I used to think the same thing and wondered just like you. There are good guys out there, but for the time being - Date, Date, Date, and find what YOU are looking for. When you least expect it, it will happen for you. but remember, it is a strong feeling that your gut will show you and only you will know how you feel. this is LOVE!