@Benster is a 32 year old Gay Male from Geelong, Victoria, Australia. He is looking for Friendship, Relationship, Chat and Travel Partner.

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I'll keep it simple:

I'm generally really happy but can also be insecure and shy sometimes, as I suppose isn't out of the ordinary. I like going out with friends: drinking, smoking, dancing, random photography sessions, making out with statues, boost from wine glasses, making juplo citities in the toy areas in myers, singing, playing on jungle gyms... I can also be pretty boring.

I'm willing to try almost anything once, afterall, life is short and we're all going to feed the wormies eventually. I'd like to think I'm nice when you get to know me.

I want to be a lawyer, psychiatrist, artist, politician... something along those lines... though I've not really decieded yet... will just experiment... want to travel the world, drink tea on the Great Pyramids explore the Amazon, visit The Federated States of Micronesia , Notre Dame... everything!

I'm considering just taking TAFE for a little while and doing every VCE subject I couldn't this year due to my obsession with Humanities... I just want to learn and experience new things, I suppose.

I'm probably not really all that different from you.

"I want the song I can sing forever I don't care for the structure just to know it's mine" - Joshua Radin (musician)


General details

Age 32
Sex Male
Sexuality Gay
Relationship Single
Ethnic Origins White
Home Location Geelong, Victoria, Australia


Body Shape Average
Height 5.9" (175 cm)
Eye Color Green
Hair Color Blonde
Tattoos None
Piercings None


Artistic Conservative Earthy Flexible Flirtatious High Energy High Maintenance Intellectual Loving Open Minded Quiet Romantic Sensitive Shy Spontaneous Stubborn Talkative Unconventional

Looking for

I honestly don't know, but I'll write down what comes into my head, I apologise in advance for the almost inevitable length.

I want a guy I can trust and who likes me for "who I am" (i.e. doesn't mind my eccentricies/wierdness), I'm not for sleeping around, meaningless flings or getting high. I've tried a few times out of interst, but it didn't really seem to change me. I suppose I'm somewhat 'traditional' (lol) and am basiclly looking for somoeone that 'cares' about me, simple as that may sound, I want someone that would listen to me if I needed to talk at 3 in the morning and who I can have interesting conversations with. I need someone that's down to earth and who says EXACTLY what they think, ESPECIALLY when I am being an arse. If you can't honestly say what you feel, then how the hell can a relationship be maintainable? The whole "I'm too sexy for my clothes" thing is a REAL turnoff, narcissism doesn't make you interesting! I want someone I can laugh with. As superficial as it may sound, I do need to be physically attracted, but I find personality tends to shape how I see people. .It would also be nice if this imaginary someone would be willing to go to art galleries, museums and music shows/gigs with me, because I get really excited about art, music etc. However, differences can sometimes be just as exciting - I suppose I'm pretty open minded.

Desired Activities

Friendship Relationship Chat Travel Partner


Interested in Men
Aged between 18 -


Lifestyle details

Lives With Family
Faith Agnostic
Has Children None
Wants Children Not Sure
Education School
Income Bracket Student
Political Interests Liberal
Drinks Socially
Diet Vegetarian
Smokes Socially

General interests

Antiques Arts and Crafts Board Games Camping Dining Out Drawing Gardening Movies Music Painting Photography Reading Shopping Strategy Games Surfing the Web Travelling Video Games Walking Writing

Music interests

African Ambient Ballroom Blues Classical Country Dance Electronic Garage Grunge Hip Hop Indie Jazz Metal Pop Reggae Religious RnB Rock Soul

Sports interests

Cycling Gym Hiking Ice Skating Running Skiing Swimming Walking Yoga

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