Once upon a time, but not twice. There was a dude that came across a gay dating website in search of some real dudes (not some fake pictures and fake profiles) looking forward to meet someone that may match its criteria. Because there is thousands of those type of websites on the web, he had no expectations whatsoever and this is why this profile will do as many other profiles, sit there and wait to see if someone will get interested. Sure the picture shown isn't the best, I could have gone for a professional one with all the bells and whistles but that wouldn't be ME. I do not wake up in the morning with licked hairs, shoes on and/or fresh scent of roses, therefore you are not going to see professional photos of myself, I am not in here for a beauty pageant (I hate those anyway).
So to continue this story (which will continue in another section), this dude is simple yet complicated, he is simple in a sense that you're not entering a bullshit zone, sure I want to find someone, but certainly not base on idiotic profiles responding generic stupid questions such as "what are your hobbies?" I like and dislike everything, it all depends of the current day and the day before. Complicated in the sense that the dude knows what he's looking for and that may seems complicated for some, while for that dude it's actually quite simple. Want an example? Alright! Do not come around saying that you're looking for an honest dude, when in fact we are all hiding behind a pseudonym and some sale pitch to stand out oneself from the others, we lie all the time, all of us!
This dude isn't here to look for the ONE, that's an urban legend. Yes the one doesn't exist, I am not the one to somebody I am someONE to somebody and that's what I intend to be here... someOne, not the One.
|Ethnic Origins||African / Afro Caribbean / Black|
|Home Location||Montreal, Quebec, Canada|
|Height||5.8" (173 cm)|
|Piercings||One or Two|
Artistic Flexible Intellectual Open Minded Practical Quiet Self Confident Sophisticated Spontaneous Unconventional
Alright let's continue that story I started in my introduction. This time however I will not speak at the third person. So as I was saying earlier some of you may find me complicated, but I'm only complicated to those who are themselves complicated. But let's put that in a logic perspective;
First thing let's talk about the physical, yep the physical! I am going to cut the bullshit right from the start! Physical on online dating comes first... . No I am not, there's nothing that shallow about that, you, me, and Johnny all first look at what the person looks like, this mean I will look at your face and if I like what I see I'll go for it and you'll be doing the very same with me. So physically speaking like many I like good looking dude but good looking doesn't necessarily means that you got to look like a supermodel. First and foremost, supermodels are easy on the eyes, but when you get to know them, you just find out that their shit doesn't smell better than yours. I am not a Corbin Fisher or Belami's model and honestly they're not my type not even a second. I do not find Justin Bieber attractive either. I am in peace with the way I look... So let's have some kind of honesty here, I am fit, I am a dude and have a dude's demeanor... I am not ugly, fugly or a supermodel and I am not 60 years old. This means that like many I do like to be surrounded with dudes of the same leather.
Right after the look, comes the attitude, which is almost to me more important than the way one look. You can have the most cutest face on the planet, but if you can't balance beauty versus attitude you do not worth more than dog poo in my book. But before asking for someone's attitude, one need to take a deep look at itself and see what attitude he broadcasts to others. I am an intellectual, I have opinion about everything and everyone and I voice them out clearly as well and I expect the same from my partner. Don't be scared to hurt my feelings (now let's be clear that you can't play game with me) but yes it is okay to tell me that I dress like a donkey, but it is not okay to tell me that I dress like a donkey when you only wear designer clothes that are over your budget. Why wearing the name of someone else for the sake of prestige? Would that person pay so much to wear a t-shirt with your name on it? I doubt it! I wear designer clothes, not because of the name, not because of their social personas but more because I like it and I can afford it... and let's be honest here it can be fun sometimes to say that your pair of jeans worth more than your car LOL. Once in a while it's okay to Flash.
Younger is better? Really! I had very cute and young dude, I was 35 and he was 18. But here's the problem with that, I have a career, he doesn't, I felt like more being a father figure than a boyfriend, I don't mind you being 18, 19, 20, 21 and not have yet my financial, but I am not your sugar daddy, I am not your "pick as you want gold bucket." I am not your dad (I hate those daddy/son crap in porn and I hate them in real life too, , it never came to my mind and it will never come to my mind, that sick fantasy isn't working for me and that may be the reason why I'm not too much into porn. If you're 18 coming up to me I will always be suspicious... unless it's really what you want (and i'll find out quick enough, don't come to me.)
Well i'll stop this novel at this: when you come to me, to chat, to meet or just to be acquaintances, I'm an intellectual, I'm a teacher, I'm a scientist, I have opinion, I have experience and I love to share it... if you're too shy, stay in your corner because as much as I understand, overly shy dudes I don't find them interesting.
Go ahead, do your best and contact me, only the future will tell where it will lead and I am no psychic but I am a behavioral psychologist, what you don't say say much more than you think!
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|Interested in||Men, Women|
|Aged between||21 - 35|
|Has Children||Yes, living away from home|
|Diet||A careful diet|
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