@Friendsfind1986 is a 33 year old Gay Male from Saldanha, Western Cape, South Africa. He is looking for Friendship, Relationship, Chat, Workout Partner, Travel Partner and Casual.

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Have you ever been in love? Horrible, isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up real good. You build up all these defenses. You build up this whole armor for months or years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They don't ask for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you, or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. This Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like 'maybe we should be friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts! Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Dont you just hate it? But then again is it ever worth not trying?


General details

Age 33
Sex Male
Sexuality Gay
Relationship Single
Ethnic Origins White
Home Location Saldanha, Western Cape, South Africa


Body Shape Average
Height 6.1" (185 cm)
Eye Color Hazel
Hair Color
Tattoos None
Piercings None


Conservative Flamboyant Flirtatious High Energy Intellectual Loving Open Minded Outgoing Practical Romantic Self Confident Sensitive Sophisticated Spontaneous Talkative

Looking for

We all say we dont have a type, deep down we all know that we do secretly fall for a certain type easier than others, if i had to be honest i'd say my weakness is blonde bottom guys with beautiful eyes that's usually way too young for me, yet the biggest crush i've ever had is quite the opposite, so instead of finding that perfect idea (that probably doesnt exists) lets not let only good looks, abs and killer bodies define who we are. All i'm asking is to take a chance on me, let me take you out for drinks or dinner, old school face to face time to get to know one another, I live in Langebaan but I dont mind driving to CT or where ever I need to for the chance of meeting someone spectacular. i'm into guys my own race when it comes to dating but i'm open to friends of color, thats my preferance, trying to be upfront about it so respect that and dont be nasty about it. Sorry if i'm sounding too serious, i usually way more fun😜

Desired Activities

Friendship Relationship Chat Workout Partner Travel Partner Casual


Interested in Men
Aged between - 27


Lifestyle details

Lives Alone
Faith Christianity
Has Children None
Wants Children Not Sure
Education University
Occupation Sales
Income Bracket Executive
Political Interests Liberal
Drinks Socially
Diet I eat everything
Smokes Socially

General interests

Arts and Crafts Cars Clubbing Cooking DIY Dining Out Entertaining Fishing Gardening Hiking Investing Movies Music Photography Shopping Surfing the Web Television Travelling Walking

Music interests

Ambient Blues Classical Country Dance Disco Drum and Bass Electronic House Pop Techno Trance

Sports interests

Extreme Sports Gym Hiking Ice Skating Running Swimming

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