Younger or young minded playmate who is not insane, selfish sexually and understands party favors as the icing and not the cake itself. My ideal partner is open minded, able to have, appreciate and recognize a good experience without feeling a need to go chase after the next unknown. Monogamy should be a personal choice and not a mutual sacrifice. The casual can and should be intimate. It feels better to indulge in the piggish with someone familiar rather than someone nameless.