@SmokeAndShadows is a 61 year old Gay Male from Durban, KwaZulu Natal, South Africa. He is looking for Friendship and Chat.

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Hi, I have been in a relationship with a much younger man for many years - the dynamics in our relationship seem to be changing as the years go by. We always thought that "age is just a number" but every day seems to add to the negative weight of this number.

I am looking around to see who may be out there, also looking. Although I am almost 60 I still feel the same desires that I felt when I was 16 - believe it or not.

Would like to chat with men of any age (legal only) in order to make friends and broaden the possibilities of my life. Do not have any preferences regarding ethnicity or looks - anyone from twinks to bears and beyond, from any location, are welcome to contact me.

Get in touch and let's see where this takes us.


General details

Age 61
Sex Male
Sexuality Gay
Relationship Open relationship
Ethnic Origins White
Location Durban, KwaZulu Natal, South Africa


Body Shape Average
Height 5.11" (180 cm)
Eye Color Blue
Hair Color Grey
Tattoos None
Piercings None


Artistic Intellectual Loving Open Minded Romantic Spiritual Unconventional

Looking for

A chat friend initially and then we will see where this might take us....see above for more details.

Desired Activities

Friendship Chat


Interested in Men
Aged between -


Lifestyle detailsLifestyle details

Lives With Partner
Faith Spiritual
Has Children None
Wants Children No
Education University
Income Bracket
Political Interests
Drinks Socially
Diet I eat everything
Smokes Socially
Drugs Socially

General interests

Drawing Movies Music Painting Reading Surfing the Web Writing

Music interests

Classical Pop RnB Soul

Sports interests