For sex, I think it's best to be specific about my turn-ons/offs, to avoid disappointment and time-wasting for either party.

I'm looking for masculine, str8 looking/acting guys. No camp/fem types; I'm gay because I like MEN; if I liked feminine types, I'd go str8 and get a girl.

I like stocky/muscular/athletic builds, but 'average' can be okay too, as long as you're not too out of shape. Definitely no chubbies or skinny twinks, though - been there, done that, and it's just not me.

As my profile name suggests, I'm crazy about guys with big, beefy thighs (e.g. football/rugby players, bodybuilders) in tight jeans, commies or shorts. So if you've got a pair of killer thighs, I'm your man! Matchstick legs, on the other hand, are a big turn-off.

I find excess body hair a turn-off; a smooth/shaved upper body is a must (though a light 'treasure trail' can be quite sexy), and prefer legs to be smooth or minimum hairy. Also prefer shaved balls and trimmed pubes, cos I love giving oral but I like to actually SEE and FEEL what I'm sucking and I DON'T like picking hairs out of my teeth afterwards - hairballs are for cats ;o).

Role-wise, I'm looking for experienced tops who like taking control, also maybe into SM/submission games and fantasies (dressing up/sports kit, etc.) if that's your thing too.

Face-wise, I'm happy with ordinary looking boy-next-door looks, which can be very sexy, though a cute face is always a plus :o)

Package-wise, I prefer uncut to cut, and though I'm not a size-queen, if you're going to be the top, you'll have to have the right-sized tool for the job.

Ethnicity-wise, I go for caucasian guys (a fairly broad category) and orientals/asians.

For friendship/relationship, a brain, a heart and a sense of humour are minimum requirements :o) I like guys who are sensitive, thoughtful and caring towards others, who have open minds and varied interests, who can tell jokes, make decent conversation, are good company and good fun to be around. It's also VERY important that you are self-confident, independent, sorted and emotionally mature; I need neurotic, clingy, needy, emotional basket-cases like I need like a hole in the head; been there, done that, had my fair share of 'welfare cases', and never EVER again...

If you are also a decent cook (I'm not bad), give a good massage (I do) and play a good game of pool (I'm fair), so much the better :o)

Hope all that doesn't make me sound TOO picky! :o)