evansjames
@evansjames is a 43 year old Bisexual Male from Los Angeles, California, United States of America. He is looking for Friendship, Relationship, Chat, Travel Partner and Casual.
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Introduction
Being a Dominant is not like the military where rank assumes obedience. The “rank” of Dominant or Master is not assumed by the Dominant but bestowed by a submissive. This is important because it cuts to the heart of why a Dominant has the authority to give “orders” in the first place. A Dom only has power because he has been granted that power by the submissive. And a submissive grants that power to someone he respects, trusts, desires, and believes has his best interests at heart. He grants it to someone with whom he feels completely safe and protected. So yes, I as a Dominant do in fact give orders. But my orders are not simply motivated by desire for blind obedience but are often targeted at a higher purpose. Sure, often they are for my personal pleasure. But they are also designed to instill knowledge, establish norms of behavior, set expectations for performance, and above all, challenge my sub to be the best person he can possibly be both in and outside our relationship. They are also designed to similarly challenge me. I always strive to be a better person, a better partner, a better Dominant, and have our mutual interests always at heart. Being a Dominant is less about assuming authority than being a leader. A leader earns the right to lead. My sub gives me all the power I have as a Dominant. What I do with that power is up to me. But if I use it unwisely or selfishly, it will evaporate and my sub will opt to vote with his feet. D/s is, after all, a consensual agreement between two free persons and thus can be terminated when one or the other is not satisfied. D/s and even M/s are not true slavery, even when we choose to call it that. Ultimately, the submissive decides who will be his leader or if he will take on a leader at all. It is that decision that empowers the Dominant, and that decision is earned, not taken.
About
General details
Age | 43 |
Sex | Male |
Sexuality | Bisexual |
Relationship | Single |
Ethnic Origins | White |
Home Location | Los Angeles, California, United States of America |
Appearance
Body Shape | Muscular |
Height | 6.0" (183 cm) |
Eye Color | Brown |
Hair Color | Brown |
Tattoos | One or Two |
Piercings | None |
Characteristics
Compulsive Earthy Flexible Flirtatious High Energy High Maintenance Intellectual Loving Open Minded Outgoing Practical Romantic Sensitive Serious
Looking for
Desired Activities
Friendship Relationship Chat Travel Partner Casual
Requirements
Interested in | Men, Women |
Aged between | 30 - 85 |
Lifestyle
Lifestyle details
Lives | Alone |
Faith | Christianity |
Has Children | None |
Wants Children | Yes |
Education | College |
Occupation | Management & Executive |
Income Bracket | Professional |
Political Interests | Liberal |
Drinks | Socially |
Diet | A careful diet |
Smokes | Never |
Drugs | Never |
General interests
Cars Comics Computers Cooking Dining Out Hiking Investing Motorbikes Movies Music Shopping Surfing the Web Television Travelling
Music interests
Country Pop Reggae RnB Rock Soul
Sports interests
Bodybuilding Gym Surfing
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